The Military Times profiled a military spouse last week who has built a successful career despite her husband’s Army career. I recommend reading the whole thing because it is always helpful to hear the perspective of a spouse who has been successful in having a mobile career while, in her words, never having to take a demotion.
I read through the article and noted the takeaways that I think will be the most helpful to young military significant others:
1. Find a company or organization that exists everywhere. This might be difficult but it does make it easier for you to carry your career with you. This may not be possible for everyone though so at least try to find something as versatile and mobile as possible.
2. Keep an open mind about your possibilities. Don’t just automatically turn down an opportunity because it isn’t exactly what you want. Just get your foot in the door and start somewhere.
3. Volunteer for opportunities, even if it means a few more months away from your significant other. Time with your significant other can be so valuable that it can be hard to accept anything that takes you away from them when they are home and available. However, sometimes you might need to accept an opportunity that will make your career easier in the long term even if it takes you further away in the short term.
4. Have a plan and own your career. Don’t just sit back and think it will all fall into place. Map out where you might realistically be sent next, figure out what companies are in those areas and begin your outreach early.
5. Be proactive and aggressive when it comes to your career. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself. Someone has to.